Well i have been out of action for a long while maybe wasn't inspired enough to pen down my thoughts or maybe was to preoccupied with making new plans :P

2014 is coming soon i am sure we all have long list of what we want to accomplish or maybe just a small one to get things done.

I also have a small list that i want to accomplish this year and make the most of it. Always wanted to start something of my own maybe this year will be the golden year for new beginnings have been really motivated seeing and experiencing the start up culture and environment. Mxit India is really teaching me what its like to own something to be proud of it and how to handle criticism. I have done everything starting from language translations to development to social media marketing which i have gotten fond of over the time. Engaging with users has motivated me to take this on as a semi career option. But nevertheless have always wanted to own a product to build it from scratch to help people.


I really would like to thank people who helped me grow so much during the past year, who motivated me to give it my best, how to learn from my mistakes and not bow down.  

As i strolled through the park one beautiful morning found an aged man with his not so old dog . The dog in his prime followed the man where ever he went . They had this pure connection that no one could think of , They had a unique bond that no one would know who hasn't loved and cared for animals . The old pale man was talking to his dog as he would talk to his grand children and the dog was listening attentively as if he knew what was being said to him . They did everything together , they had this pure connection this unbreakable bond that no one could understand.
Dogs understand you they feel your pain when you have no one they will be the ones standing beside you . They don't think before giving LOVE they love endlessly , They defend your territory and defend you in grave danger

LoyaL! 
They Will stand by You forever

There stood a little Pink House
Between two massive ones
The little Pink House had two not so little people
Who have lived all there in a perfect and melodious way
Oblivious from the roots of development there stood that perfect
Little Pink House
As the lives of people get Twisted Day by Day that little Pink House remains the same.

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As Life is progressing we tend to not notice the small things present around us , It is rightly said that sometimes the small things give us the greatest pleasure. So today this day make it a point to notice someone or something that you have unnoticed for a long time . Say thank you to the people who have contributed little as the society would think but in the end contributed far greater than any body else.

Either it is floods

Or it is drought

Leaving the nation

Unclad, starved and distraught!

Not a grain

To feed

Asking for which

People are put into chain

Who end their mudane stay

When the life is

Utter vain

Nor a drop of water

To drink

Not only in taps

But also in drains

Where goes the grain

That rots in godowns

For the whims of the regime

As the sufferings

Become more grim

This much

For their pro-people jingle

Where raucous jingosim mingles

Treachery and perfidy

With such dexterity

With such finesse

That no one could dare say

The ministers

The security

The leaders

The bureaucrat

Are plundering with fashion

Like a pastime

Like an obssession

With anarchy all over –

Pity

The plight of the nation!

As i listened to my english teacher say these very words i fell into an everlasting introspection how these very words seemed applicable in my very life. What i want and what i get seems so far fetched and unrealistic whenever i try to... My life has not been a bed of roses every time i get do doing something i never reach to what i expected and what i wanted there seems a great pain inside of not having what i always wanted and desired..
Every time the same very feeling of giving it your all but having fallen short of expectations What does one do at such times ? What ? The good thing how ever is that the burning desire never fades away it pushes me on, there is pain inside but this desire takes me on wards and again a try i give it my best 


Among st all of this i know some day i will get it all because life ain't over Its just begun

Well am back from hell and am happy and satisfied . The past month or so was really tormenting with no mobile phones "No Electronic Items " is what they call it there never understood the motive behind this what would poor trainees do .
 I know most of you guys wouldn't know what am talking here ..but its a place called DRDO where i did my training from..... Alienating it was and typical government attitude ...
Anyhow starting out what i thought would be path breaking did prove itself .. The harsh reality came through that hard work is not enough, what you need today is much more [ a complete package].

It was 16th May and got up early because was supposed to be there by 9:30 sharp ..... Dressed in my best arrived there which came as a rude shock when i discovered that half of the people wore what they felt like and for a couple hours went mad doing formalities making ID card and what not which reminded me of college. After completing all of these approached the HRD head who sounded discouraging when starting out she told us "We don't have work in the IT field which came as a rude shock and dissapointment "... Like the rest of my life as the days passed and we got our work it turned out good :)

This post goes out to all my friends !
Friends are fun, friends are mad, friends say wrong when its right, help when you need them the most , give you support, care for you love you speak and sort out your problems when you can't 
FRiends in short our my life
Coming to my friends
lets start of with
Aviral ahaan kya kahein one of my bestest friends knows me in and out cool as a cucumber matlab iss bande ko no TENSION! but i guess i give the most tension sometimes apology! 
He thinks he s the best at everything teachers ko maska maarne mein no1 hehe i guess no one will deny this fact not even the VHDL sir who was apparently the first victim enough of the creating a scene out here his heart is as pure as gold totally dedicated and loving Dil toh ekdum saaf hai :)
Tani i would say my first real friend in cs-6 she s superb listener sometimes oh no like always gets sentimental over things but an awesome person to be with guiding me in all the small things. she's surely got the brains the right attitude but gets judgemental sometimes don't kill me for this but writing to show i care or just to popularize my blog :P .
and beta thodi tension kam liya karo i know the wrong person is saying this but ab kya karein ... ;)
Vandy as i like to call her to shaant to believe that she's in 3rd year hehe but the most intelligent i have met so far Topper she is in every sense she calls several times in the exams to tell what's important and my first sweet and real friend in college 
Apu( aka Janani)- He will literally boo me on this but its kinda true he has the most girl friends when he talks to guys its like a culture shock haha..
He's very helpful only to you know whom :P ... He's good at teaching kisi ko bhi exams se pehle padhna ho toh come to apu.... 
Ashutosh ummmm ummmmm i don't know much but i know he's always there for help to few of my friends (woudn't want to specify a name hehe) A java geek he is hope hamein bhi bta deta what all he does a game fanatic with big dreams ! all that describes him ..
Vipul aajkal totally gayab but the first guy friend of mine in amity few words i have to describe this gem of a person an all rounder a great friend to have we have those times the fun ones which can't forget and he's truly inspirational at times just like the GURU's :P Am sure he will be an amazing pilot..
Ankit A writer an 8 pointer who works very hard thinks less of himself but is in no way small he s born to make it big all my friends are because they are my friends :P just kidding he will surely make it big sooner than latter..
Urvashi  She's almost busy always pta nahi kitna padhti hai hehe damn intelligent... But movie ki IQ is amazing i must say :P jo movie pucho she must have seen that ... for sure the geek the sweet kind and composed friend 
Ishan Who could miss out my cab friend... he and gaurav such funny people your gay jokes certainly were fun for the long journey in the cab, which by the way feels pathetic these days ... The first person i poured my heart out to you understood my silence very few people do ... A very outgoing guy ...the person who hosts events ..the person who flirts alot but only for fun ... a person who doesn't have a limit of girls in his life :P That's ishan







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This title might appall you but it is very apt these days 
Not talking in a generalized manner but the topic seems to have a great deal of truth to it..


Our neighbourhood for instance is filled with cars all sorts of them each household has plenty of them either to show off or keep up with eachother's pace i don't know because i don't ..
Anyway not drifting away from my central topic its sad these days that the parents who have raised you, provided you with all the luxury have to be treated as misfits in their own home . There might be a difference in the way we think act from them but at the end of the day they ll always be our parents
As for the material possesions they hold not much of a significance for long you can show of your cars your jewelry etc etc for sometime but not always..
This topic stems out from what i noticed one of our neighbours bought a BMW and looking at them you woudn't imagine they could actually buy one , Those same people sent their mother to her village and regarded as her some foreigner in there own home..
Aren't you supposed to give them what they gave you A Life! your parents are worth more than this..
Care for them Love them thats what they need from you....


Show them you care because they won't be with you forever ..Give them what they deserve


A parent ~~
While we try to teach our children all about life, our children teach us what life is all about.

Unless a life is lived for others, it is not worthwhile”


All my posts follow a daily set of events that happen this happened when i was in the cab travelling like everyday Home to college , College to Home 
A teacher joined us today for the ride back home dread such things they seem like one big evil creatures anyway not drifting away!
A teacher around 25 years old was talking about getting married and that her parents were forcing her  to . I thought to myself this young women not so old had no say in what she wanted she seemed highly educated and well off.. is marriage all there is to life in the Indian society..
It would be sure that she would be asked to leave her job after marriage for her 'patti permeshwar' ya right .
All of this is in generalized terms but don't you think its about time when women have there say in what they want and what they do. They are earning , they are achieving , they are fending for there families . Women in India have come a long way from sitting at home cooking waiting for there husbands to be back home doing all the household chores sitting back watching soaps.. Yes they have !
Women are no more like the ladies in serials they are strong outgoing willing and straight forward . They also have there say in the family affairs and its about time the Men and the families accept it.
This is for the parents who regard there SONS everything i guess you should stop that and have trust and faith in the WOMEN for she is not weak they has a mind of her own she cares more she loves more .. For she is the one who gives birth takes care of the kids .. She is the one who will do everything...
Goes out to everyone who has a women in there life 
Maybe a Daughter, Maybe a Wife or Maybe just a friend






Happiness and Marriage